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Gone is the stark delivery room and administration of heavy duty anesthetics. Parents now have more choices than ever as to the environment into which their babies will be born.

With the growing openness of medical staff to complementary and alternative therapies, now often called integrative medicine, moms-to-be are investigating and choosing new options for delivering their babies. In fact, so many parents elect nontraditional paths that "what used to be 'alternative' is now the norm," says Loma Ellis, nursing manager for California's Alameda Hospital Birthing Center. As a result, parents now have more birthing choices than ever before.

Giving Moms a Helping Hand

A doula, or birth assistant, is a professional woman hired privately by parents to attend their child's birth. A doula serves the role as support and coach for the laboring woman. The doula does not replace the role of partner, and, very importantly, is not a member of the health care team. She is present solely to attend the laboring mom. Usually trained and experienced in childbirth, doulas can serve as a stand-in when dad is not available. But doulas can be an asset for any mother; many parents hire doulas even if dad is present.

"The doula's a safety net," says Sandi Miller, RN, CD, owner of Before Birth and Beyond in San Jose, CA. "Whatever happens, whether it's a cesarean or whatever, the parents know what's going on and the doula is watching out for them."

Miller, a certified member of Doulas of North America (DONA), says that a doula's main purpose "is the continuity of someone who is not only trained and experienced, but is there for you and has no other agenda."

Although doctors may not have worked with a birth assistant before, most doulas accompany moms to a prenatal visit in order to meet the doctor before the big day. Once the doctor knows the doula is there for support and not to replace or interfere with the medical staff, he or she is likely to welcome this additional member of the team.